Let me be honest. I don’t think I will ever be comfortable with the idea of dating someone from online. Which is weird, because I *KNOW* there is no stigma attached to it, I am always genuinely pleased for those who have met their significant others online, and I never come away thinking – “oo [...]
Archive for January, 2009
Date # 1: Success…and yet, not a success…
Posted in Maya, tagged Dating, misadventures on January 24, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Step 1: complete
Posted in Maya, tagged Dating, Singledom on January 22, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
So I took the plunge, and I signed up on eharmony.com. Don’t know if i did the right thing. The signing up process was so darn long… but it’s done, it’s up. Everyday eharmony.com sends me the list of my potential soul mates . It tells me how far away they live, their ethnicity, their [...]
This new chapter of 2009
Posted in From Lata to Maya, tagged Dating, Singledom on January 15, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Dear Maya, I’m happy that you are joining me on the journey of dating this year. After the long break, I feel I’m ready as well. I have to say though that I don’t think you will get the answer for any the questions until you actually dive head first into the dating game, Maya. [...]
Step 1: Getting Ready
Posted in Maya, tagged Dating, misadventures, Singledom on January 9, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Ok, so seriously, people what is the first step if I want to start dating? Do I focus internally? Do I focus on meeting new people? Do I join a “club” where there are more boys than girls? Do I sign up on match.com? How do I give the right signals to people? Correction: How [...]
Lata gets a persective from her therapist
Posted in Lata, tagged Thresholds on January 8, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I’ve always freely admitted to anyone within earshot that I’m picky about who I consider a friend and I’ve always chalked it up to trust issues. I might take people for face value and hope that they are well-intentioned, but at the same time I’m not one of those people who can tell a lot [...]
Maya Needs to Learn How to Date
Posted in Maya, tagged Singledom on January 5, 2009 | 1 Comment »
So I’ve decided to start dating! Why is it such a big deal, you ask? Well, because I’m almost 30 and I’ve never really had a real relationship. In fact, I think you can count on one hand the number of proper dates I’ve been on. As for relationships, forget about it. My last serious [...]
Unaccoutable weight gain and 3 moments of happiness
Posted in Lata, tagged Hell is cooler than my head on January 5, 2009 | 1 Comment »
Beginning 2009 with a real possibility that I weight at least 15lbs more than what I did same time last year is not a happy prospect. Even harder has been finding three moments of genuine happiness in the last two weeks of 2008. Is it wrong to confess that two of moments were found on [...]
